No one can tell me how to be me. The same goes for being a writer. Yet, I can’t help myself. The internet is full of mostly well-intentioned advice on writing — forums, essays, lists, and opinionated rant — and I soak it up. Chuck Wendig’s blog, one of my current favorites, is full of fun little lists of advice aimed at writers. It’s all too easy to choke on the stream when you’re drinking from a fire hose, though. I could spend my entire day reading other people’s take on rules and processes and neglect my own projects, if I didn’t put some filters in place.
Rules themselves aren’t necessarily bad. Some people are contrarians and make a point to avoid them but the truth is, rules are rules for a reason. These are things that have been done so poorly over time that someone arrived at a simple conclusion to fix a widespread problem and the publishing community said, “Yes, that.†As generalities go, they can be useful for filtering out a lot of noise.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard someone say that “You have to know the rules before you can break them.†What’s that mean, exactly? Well, it’s part of the internalization process but that’s still vague.
I think about that in terms of the old lawn mower engine I used to tinker with when I was a teen. At first, I knew nothing about it other than where to put the gas. When it wouldn’t start, my dad explained the carburetor, about ignition, combustion, and airflow. He handed me a screwdriver and showed me how to wedge open the choke and get the engine started. I understood a rule; I could tell you why restricted airflow would prevent the lawn mower from starting and I could follow the rule and make it run it but I was far from being able to build my own engine.
Rules try to quantify problematic story traits into simplistic, cautionary terms. What they don’t always do is give us the context behind them. That’s left up to us to figure out. I know I’ve internalized something when I can tell it to someone else without stumbling over the explanation. I put together a shiny little flowchart that kind of breaks down my process:
I try to take each piece of advice as if I’m chewing on a piece of salt the size of a jawbreaker, even if it comes from my childhood hero or my best friends. No one is trying to mislead me, but everyone approaches these problems from their own experiences. Rules that work for everyone, like absolute, are suspect at best.
The most famous (and infuriatingly vague) rule might be “Show, don’t tell.†What that really means, to me, is choosing which details you reveal to the reader, and how, carefully. I don’t need to spend a paragraph emphasizing the ticking of a clock, for example, if it doesn’t have any relevance to the story other than, perhaps, to set mood. It’s a balancing of importance.
“Write what you know†is another one that has always bothered me. I’ve never been an airship pirate, nor have I been a 1920’s superhero but that hasn’t stopped me from writing about them. So what does that really mean? What I do know — life experience. I’ve known anguish and heartbreak. I’ve seen people self-destruct through inaction and apathy, or rise to new heights through personal revelation. What I know is the life I’ve lived and ultimately story comes down to the people who populate it.
Every writer has leeway to interpret the rules their own way. How we write defines our voice. That variety is what makes literature exciting and worth reading. Can you imagine the horrible boringness if every writers voice were the same — if someone like Catherynne Valente (whose written voice is amazing) were indistinguishable from any other writer? That would be a fucking criminal and should emphasis the importance of making these bits of wisdom your own.
Finding your voice is your internalization of the so-called rules. And when you’re done, motherfucking own those rules and write.
26/03/2012 at 5:31 pm Permalink
I find that all too many new writers skip the step of making sure they actually understand how to follow a rule before they decide to abandon it. As a screenwriter I rejected “Hollywood formula” for a long time as simplistic and limiting, because I had never actually tried to use it. Once I tried it, I discovered how incredibly complicated and challenging the “formula” was, like a puzzle, and how much flexibility it actually allowed me. It took me years to reliably reproduce the proper pacing/turning points for a screenplay, and once I internalized these “rules” I was a lot more free to play with the form and make informed choices about when to depart from the expected.
26/03/2012 at 7:14 pm Permalink
This post reminds me of my favorite Bruce Lee quote:
Absorb what is useful, discard what is not, add what is uniquely your own.
27/03/2012 at 4:30 am Permalink
Rules themselves are not bad and in fact they are necessary to break them and do better.
I think your first sentence is the clue. No one can tell how to be ourselves but we find our ways by deciding which rule to follow and which to forget.
Thank you for sharing the “auto-tune of literature”.
27/03/2012 at 10:37 am Permalink
“You have to know the rules before you can break them” means that you not only have to know what the rule is, but you have to understand the reasoning behind the rule. It’s only by understanding the rationale that you can determine in what situations that rationale, and thus the rule, does not apply.
“Show, don’t tell” isn’t so much about what details you include as it is the way you impart information. If you say “John was happy,” you’re telling the reader what John is feeling. But if you say “John smiled,” you’re giving the reader a visual cue from which they can then infer that John is happy. You’re showing them, not telling them. This is both richer in terms of story and it’s the way things work in real life. If John is a coworker, we don’t have an internal narrator who relates to us that John is ecstatic about his promotion. We have to watch John’s behavior and figure it out for ourselves. Showing vice telling immerses the reader in the story and makes it more realistic.
28/03/2012 at 2:01 am Permalink
Unfortunately, some of the rules, instead of encouraging people to do better, end up telling them “Don’t do.” And we’re our on own worst enemies because no one wants to risk trying something because there’s a rule. I dislike “You know the rules to have to break them” because it’s often used as a dismissal to someone who wants to ignore the “Don’t do.” I’m not talking about someone stamping their feet and saying, “I want to use adverbs everywhere and you can’t stop me!” I wanted to use a dream sequence in my book. I wanted to do it well. I was so so surprised at the reactions of other writers. This was something in the middle of the book. And it was 50 words, in the a novel of many thousands of words. And everyone was utterly terrified of breaking a rule. There’s a point where rules stifle creativity.